Two people who are complete opposites, have nothing in common and will not be able to relate. I switched high school every year because I felt that I couldn't relate to a lot of people. There has to be a similarity, even if it's that they disagree about a common topic. I'm not talking long term relationship, I mean in order for two people to even talk.. there has to be something in common. Two people would not even meet if there was no similarity in their lives. Like if they are not at the same place at the same time they will never get to know each other.
When it comes to similarities and NO opposites.. well, that's just impossible too, because if you meet someone who is the same as you in every way, you might as well call them your clone. Everyone is different. Now, differences can help or ruin a relationship. If people are TOO different then they will not relate, and the same goes for people who are TOO much alike.
NOW YOUR THINKING WHATTTT IS SHE TALKING ABOUT?
Example 1: Mike and Lucy are on vacation in the mountains. Lucy has agreed to go on this trip even though she can't stand the cold. While the two of them are out walking, Lucy gets cold. Mike, unlike Lucy, is fine with a little cold weather and offers her his scarf and gloves. Lucy sees Mike as a sweet guy based on that action and Mike is happy that he could be the hero and help Lucy out. Because of their differences, both are happy and will most likely have a great time on their trip since they were able to form this special little bond.
Example 2: Same situation except both don't like the cold. "Well, why did we come here in the first place?!!" Lucy yells as she tries to grab Mike's scarf and ends up strangling him on accident.
Example 3: Same situation again, except this time both are ok with cold weather. They're tough people! They walk... They look around. They have a decent time, only it might just be a little boring. And after a long walk in the snow, they get back and talk about how great it is to have become friends!
So there you go! With a perfect mix of similarities and differences, opposites in SOME ways and exactly the same in some as well, two lucky people will be able to create a relationship tha lasts.
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